by Kermi Liya
Published on: Jul 26, 2008
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Type: Opinions

It's true that while most of us are paranoid about "sex" while in our teens, it's also the time when we are most vulnerable. The media showers us with images and news about sex and the sex life of others, making it nearly impossible to not include it in our daily thinking. Everyday, more and more teens around the world find themselves in a position where sex or people considering sex becomes a question of right and wrong - is there such thing as common sense when it comes to sex?

The answer is yes. All you need is your conscience.

As our new generation of human beings develop into future leaders, it is imperative that we make it clear that sex is not a must. The pressure to not become a "40 year old virgin" is mounting on the backs of teens and young adults who are also in the midst of finding financial security, a partner and much more.

Adults should make it more clear in their family gatherings or community meetings that sex is a simple thing - its something that two people (or more) engage in because they love each other. However they must also add that sex is primarily to make children or to secure a base of a family-otherwise it has unwanted consequences such as early pregnancies or biological attractions. Financial stability, long-term commitments, security, food and other necessities also appear on the table when sex is dragged into the lives of persons. These are the realities of having a serious sexual life, without prevention.

While educating the young of the developed worlds, we must all turn our heads to the bigger global problem - over population. People must address the issue of the lack of sex education in promoting it in developing countries, and assist in teaching youths in a culturally accepted fashion. As we head into a world where globalism is the key to success, it is impossible to leave out such a huge and important part of the world. The same message of safe sex at a responsible financial stage should be passed on for all ears to hear so that everyone can benefit with the addition of knowledge.

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