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| Because most of my friends are female and I saw far, far too many of them get hurt through sex and relationships and swore that I would try never to be like that. Ten years on and it is a painful decision which has been tested on many an occasion, but one which helps define me, who I am, for all the sadness it brings. But the worse bit has been caring for others, for friends, for strangers. Seeing friends who think it is a great idea to get drunk because then they do what they want, or think that they want. Some I know have lost their self-respect, and find it almost scary that somebody might care for them. I am still hurting from one like that; whom I tried to help, but who has set her heart on that course. She hadn’t been abused before- but alcohol fuelled, she has since then on more than one occasion, and worse- she doesn’t know to what extent. No one can except the perpetrator. Upholding a code of ethics more akin to chivalry, I, and the few others left out there like me, suffer far more than our fair share of pain. Part of me wants to change. The other part is scared that if I give up, then one day there might be no one left to look after the others who get drunk, stoned, lost.
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I'm a virgin as well, but only 20 Arann G. Léon | Feb 11th, 2003
Hello, I also find myself a virgin in this strange world we live in, but not by choice, but rather a blend of shyness, never meeting the right girl/woman, and (I think) not projecting the right image...
That aside, I believe that just having sex for the sheer pleasure of the act is a bit hollow, because of the association of relationship with sex, it could be a disaster, or a let down..
I believe that if I really connected with someone, and begin to love that person for what they are, sex would be a natural progression of our relationship, if it came to that, and I also think that sex is not a big issue, if I had a "girlfriend" (maybe "soulmate" would be a better term), I would certainly hope that our relationship was based in more then just physical attraction and sexual desire... Love and discourse of ideas, or simply quiet (or noisy) companionship would likely be a much healthier and more rewarding basis for relating to a significant other.
On the other hand (I like to offer some type of perspective) I believe some if not most of the love and closeness is missing from modern western society, and people should be more open to the wonderful and beautiful world of human sensations and experience their own lives more fully...
Just some random thoughts and musings, thanks for reading! G;)
-Gaspard
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im a virgin as well,but only 18 =) Ha Thi Lan Anh | May 21st, 2003
i have friends who are hurt too. And i myself was hurt in relationships too. But i think the reason i choose to be virgin until now and maybe for few more years is mainly because i havent met someone that i love enough and have a relationship that is strong enough to have sex.But i think you should not let your mind attached too much to sad experiences of yourself and your friends in the past. Let there be some space for new possibility, for new wonderful things to happen. And everything can happen if you meet a right somebody,:) so if that chance appear, dont let it go by.Life would be sad to lose wonderful things :)
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