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                    <title>TIGblogs - Mian A Amin's TIGBlog</title> 
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                    <description>What's on the minds of young leaders from around the globe?</description> 
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                    <title>The Month Of AUGUST</title> 
                    <link>http://adnanmian.tigblog.org/post/242281</link> 
                    <description><![CDATA[<br />
*Loves to joke<br />
* Attractive<br />
* Suave and caring<br />
* Brave and fearless<br />
* Firm and has leadership qualities<br />
* Knows how to console others<br />
* Too generous and egoistic<br />
* Takes high pride of oneself<br />
* Thirsty for praises<br />
* Extraordinary spirit<br />
* Easily angered<br />
* Angry when provoked<br />
* Easily jealous<br />
* Observant<br />
* Careful and cautious<br />
* Thinks quickly<br />
* Independent thoughts<br />
* Loves to lead and to be led<br />
* Loves to dream<br />
* Talented in the arts, music and defense<br />
* Sensitive but not petty<br />
* Poor resistance against illnesses<br />
* Learns to relax<br />
* Hasty and rushy<br />
* Romantic<br />
* Loving and caring<br />
* Loves to make friends]]></description> 
					<pubDate>Thu, 16 Aug 2007 18:52:00 EDT</pubDate> 
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                    <title>Your Parachute</title> 
                    <link>http://adnanmian.tigblog.org/post/217641</link> 
                    <description><![CDATA[Charles Plumb was a US Navy jet pilot in Vietnam .. After 75 combat missions, his plane was destroyed by a surface-to-air missile. Plumb ejected and parachuted into enemy hands. He was captured and spent 6 years in a communist Vietnamese prison. He survived the ordeal and now lectures on lessons learned from that experience! <br />
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One day, when Plumb and his wife were sitting in a restaurant, a man at another table came up and said, "You're Plumb! You flew jet fighters in Vietnam from the aircraft carrier Kitty Hawk . You were shot down!" <br />
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"How in the world did you know that?" asked Plumb. <br />
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"I packed your parachute," the man replied. Plumb gasped in surprise and gratitude. The man pumped his hand and said, "I guess it worked!" Plumb assured him, "It sure did. If your chute hadn't worked, I wouldn't be here today." <br />
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Plumb couldn't sleep that night, thinking about that man. Plumb says, "I kept wondering what he had looked like in a Navy uniform: a white hat; a bib in the back; and bell-bottom trousers. I wonder how many times I might have seen him and not even said 'Good morning, how are you?' or anything because, you see, I was a fighter pilot and he was just a sailor." Plumb thought of the many hours the sailor had spent at a long wooden table in the bowels of the ship, carefully weaving the shrouds and folding the silks of each chute, holding in his hands each time the fate of someone he didn't know. <br />
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Now, Plumb asks his audience, "Who's packing your parachute?" Everyone has someone who provides what they need to make it through the day. He also points out that he needed many kinds of parachutes when his plane was shot down over enemy territory -- he needed his physical parachute, his mental parachute, his emotional parachute, and his spiritual parachute. He called on all these supports before reaching safety. <br />
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Sometimes in the daily challenges that life gives us, we miss what is really important. We may fail to say hello, please, or thank you, congratulate someone on something wonderful that has happened to them, give a compliment, or just do something nice for no reason. As you go through this week, this month, this year, recognize people who pack your parachutes. <br />
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					<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jun 2007 16:54:00 EDT</pubDate> 
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                    <title>How to ask your Boss for a salary increase..?</title> 
                    <link>http://adnanmian.tigblog.org/post/217627</link> 
                    <description><![CDATA[One day an employee sends a letter to his boss asking for an increase in his salary!!!<br />
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Dear Bo$$ <br />
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   In thi$ life, we all need $ome thing mo$t de$perately. I think you $hould be under$tanding of the need$ of u$ worker$ who have given $o much $upport including $weat and $ervice to your company. <br />
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I am $ure you will gue$$ what I mean and re$pond $oon. <br />
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Your$ $incerely, <br />
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Norman $oh      <br />
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The next day, the employee recieved this letter of reply:<br />
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Dear NOrman, <br />
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   I kNOw you have been working very hard. NOwadays, NOthing much has changed. You must have NOticed that our company is NOt doing NOticeably well as yet. <br />
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NOw the newspaper are saying the world`s leading ecoNOmists are NOt sure if the United States may go into aNOther recession. After the NOvember presidential elections things may turn bad. <br />
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I have NOthing more to add NOw. You kNOw what I mean. <br />
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Yours truly, <br />
Manager<br />
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					<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jun 2007 15:52:00 EDT</pubDate> 
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                    <title>This is true, even if you are not superstitious, agnostic, or otherwise faith impaired.</title> 
                    <link>http://adnanmian.tigblog.org/post/217065</link> 
                    <description><![CDATA[ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. <br />
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TWO . Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other. <br />
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THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want. <br />
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FOUR . When you say, "I love you ," mean it. <br />
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FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye. <br />
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SIX . Be engaged at least six months before you get married. <br />
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SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight. <br />
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EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much. <br />
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NINE . Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely. <br />
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TEN. . In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling. <br />
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ELEVEN . Don't judge people by their relatives. <br />
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TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly. <br />
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THIRTEEN . When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?" <br />
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FOURTEEN . Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk. <br />
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FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze. <br />
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SIXTEEN . When you lose, don't lose the lesson ! <br />
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SEVENTEEN . Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and responsibility for all your actions. <br />
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EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship. <br />
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NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. <br />
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TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice. <br />
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TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone. <br />
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Now, here's the FUN part! <br />
Send this to at least 5 people and your life will improve. 1-4 people: Your life will improve slightly. <br />
5-9 people: Your life will improve to your liking. <br />
9-14 people: You will have at least 5 surprises in the next 3 weeks <br />
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15 and above: Your life will improve drastically and everything you ever dreamed of will begin to take shape. <br />
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A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.]]></description> 
					<pubDate>Sun, 10 Jun 2007 06:11:00 EDT</pubDate> 
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                    <title>BECAUSE OF YOU</title> 
                    <link>http://adnanmian.tigblog.org/post/206881</link> 
                    <description><![CDATA[<br />
I will not make the same mistakes that you did <br />
I will not let myself cause my heart so much misery <br />
I will not break the way you did <br />
You fell so hard <br />
I've learned the hard way, to never let it get that far <br />
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Because of you <br />
I never stray too far from the sidewalk <br />
Because of you <br />
I learned to play on the safe side <br />
So I don't get hurt <br />
Because of you <br />
I find it hard to trust <br />
Not only me, but everyone around me <br />
Because of you <br />
I am afraid <br />
<br />
I lose my way <br />
And it's not too long before you point it out <br />
I cannot cry <br />
Because I know that's weakness in your eyes <br />
I'm forced to fake, a smile, a laugh <br />
Every day of my life <br />
My heart can't possibly break <br />
When it wasn't even whole to start with <br />
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Because of you <br />
I never stray too far from the sidewalk <br />
Because of you <br />
I learned to play on the safe side <br />
So I don't get hurt <br />
Because of you <br />
I find it hard to trust <br />
Not only me, but everyone around me <br />
Because of you <br />
I am afraid <br />
<br />
I watched you die <br />
I heard you cry <br />
Every night in your sleep <br />
I was so young <br />
You should have known better than to lean on me <br />
You never thought of anyone else <br />
You just saw your pain <br />
And now I cry <br />
In the middle of the night <br />
For the same damn thing <br />
<br />
Because of you <br />
I never stray too far from the sidewalk <br />
Because of you <br />
I learned to play on the safe side <br />
So I don't get hurt <br />
Because of you <br />
I tried my hardest just to forget everything <br />
Because of you <br />
I don't know how to let anyone else in <br />
Because of you <br />
I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty <br />
Because of you <br />
I am afraid <br />
<br />
Because of you <br />
Because of you<br />
<br />
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					<pubDate>Sat, 19 May 2007 01:37:00 EDT</pubDate> 
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                    <title>volunteerisum</title> 
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                    <description><![CDATA[admirable and charity job, and can learn a lot of experiences from it, as a volunteer many people do thus for welfare of underprivileged and societies around the world. <br />
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We don’t know real how many peoples in the world are feeling in hunger, poor, underprivileged and by the nature or man-made disaster but according to survey in the world billions peoples are feeling underprivileged, therefore they are seeking various assistance from wealthy, educated and heartiest peoples for alive peacefully in any location of the world. We aware thus that many volunteer ]]></description> 
					<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2007 17:50:00 EDT</pubDate> 
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                    <title>How To Attract The Mate Of Your Dreams?</title> 
                    <link>http://adnanmian.tigblog.org/post/196595</link> 
                    <description><![CDATA[In my quest to find the perfect mate, I often ended up dating or attracting people who were completely wrong for me. It was only when I realised a simple truth that my entire concept of relationships changed. <br />
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Practitioners of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) have a rule that states: The meaning of your communication is the response that you get. <br />
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That means the response you elicit from a person depends entirely on how you communicate your ideas to them. If you communicate in a way that gets you the response you desired, you were successful. If not, you need to learn what was missing in your communication and how to incorporate that the next time you try. <br />
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Notice how this rule places the onus of getting a response on YOU, not on the other person. <br />
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If you extrapolate this to relationships, you could say, “The kind of person you attract depends on the kind of person you are.” Our relationships, and the people we attract into our lives, are just a reflection of who we are, at that point in our lives. <br />
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We often talk about men (or women) being “emotionally unavailable” or unwilling to commit to a better relationship. But the kind of people we attract into our lives often tend to be people who mirror our personality or the issues we are dealing with, in some way. <br />
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If, deep down, you have a fear of commitment or of “losing your freedom”, then you’re going to attract a mate with the same issues. If you have no self-love or low self-esteem, you’ll end up attracting people with the same problems. <br />
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The reason why we see patterns in our lives, why we get into abusive or unfulfilling relationships, is because we’ve not dealt with the issues that were responsible for creating our own beliefs and personalities. <br />
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The Law of Attraction states that like attracts like. If you think positive thoughts, you’ll attract good things to you. If you respect people and do good by them, you’ll elicit the same response from them. <br />
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If you want to attract a person with all the qualities you want in a mate, then you must develop those qualities in yourself. <br />
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Want your mate to be more loving, giving and kind? Then become more loving, giving and kind. <br />
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Want your mate to be health-conscious? Start taking charge of your own health and fitness. <br />
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Want your mate to have a good sense of humour? Take the time and effort to develop your own sense of humour. <br />
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Want your mate to be financially secure? Get your own finances in order. <br />
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Want your mate to be emotionally available? Commit to sharing more of yourself first. <br />
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If you’ve been attracting the wrong kind of people into your life, take a good look at the person in the mirror. Get to know yourself better. You’ll find the answers are all inside you. <br />
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If you want a better relationship, you must become a better person. To attract the mate of your dreams, you must become the person you want to attract.<br />
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					<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2007 03:23:00 EDT</pubDate> 
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                    <title>He's walking away from me.</title> 
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                    <description><![CDATA[He's walking away from me.<br />
His back is tense, and I know he's angry with me.<br />
I suppose he's got a right to be angry.<br />
He's looking back at me now with that look in his eyes.<br />
The look that says I've disappointed him again.<br />
I know I'm a coward for not even trying.<br />
He's been waiting twenty years,<br />
and I can't even try.<br />
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He's getting in his truck,<br />
Heading back to that empty place he calls home.<br />
Soon I'll have to go back to my own empty life,<br />
and wait for the next time we can see each other again.<br />
It's not so different from what we've done for the last two decades.<br />
Except, I have this awful feeling that something's going to happen.<br />
This feeling is so over powering,<br />
making it hard to breathe.<br />
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Every second takes him<br />
further and further away from me.<br />
I want to go after him.<br />
I want to beg him to stay<br />
and never leave my side.<br />
Why couldn't I just tell him what he wanted to hear?<br />
Why couldn't I just tell him I love him?<br />
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Instead, I say nothing.<br />
I do nothing.<br />
I just stand and watch him disappear,<br />
not having the courage to call him back.<br />
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A tear runs down my cheek.<br />
Somehow, I know,<br />
deep in my soul,<br />
I will never<br />
See My Love again. <br />
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					<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2007 16:39:00 EDT</pubDate> 
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                    <title>Respect Your Partner</title> 
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                    <description><![CDATA[<br />
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Never is it more important to be there for your partner than during holidays and stressful events. Below are 10 ways you can show your love and respect for your sweetheart, AND help make the event memorable and romantic!<br />
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1. Don't try to change your partner, or wish they would act or be another way. Accept your partner as who they are. This is especially true around the holidays. When you're spending time trying to change your partner, you are losing time that could have been spent getting closer to each other, and finding the best friend and lover you know is there. Surprisingly enough, the more you leave your partner alone about small things, the more they will actually start to change anyway! <br />
2. Pay attention. Take the time to listen to what your partner is actually saying to you. At no time can this be true than around busy and stressful events. If you see your partner getting flustered about something, stop them and tell them it's okay and you're there for them no matter what. Taking these extra, loving steps can turn any life event into something truly special. <br />
3. Focus more on your partner's positive attributes rather than their negative ones. No one likes to be reminded of his or her faults, including you. And, let's face it, no one's perfect either. Personally, I feel life would be pretty boring if we all were. So, instead of looking at the negative attributes, remind yourself we are ALL growing and learning new things. You never know, there might be one day when you need someone to do the same for you! <br />
4. If you feel yourself getting angry, stop and really look at what you're getting angry over. Is it something you will care about in a few months or even a few days? If not, let it go. While it's important to release your emotions, it's also important to realize what is actually worth arguing over and what is not. Remember, just because your partner doesn't agree with you on something, it doesn't mean they are not understanding you or seeing your point of view. <br />
5. Give each other space when needed. Have a girls  guys night out. When you feel your partner is stressing because they haven't taken the time for themselves, help them out. Give them the opportunity to enjoy a night doing whatever they want to do. Then, let them return the favor once in awhile! <br />
6. Let them know you care. Know your partner interests and encourage their activity in them. So your partner wants to spend the day watching football or shopping to catch all the after-holiday sales? Make a compromise! During the day, you both do what you want to do, then agree to do something romantic that evening such as going out to a candlelight dinner. <br />
7. Do some of their chores once in awhile as a surprise. At no other time can this be more appreciated than around the holidays. If you're hosting your holiday events, help your partner out by cleaning the place and preparing the meals. Or, if you have kids, help keep them occupied so you can both get things done more effectively. <br />
8. Respect your partner's feelings. If they are under stress, give them some space and love. Write little notes of appreciation and thanks then leave them for your partner to find. Or, stop and tell them how special they are every so often. By doing this, you're letting your partner know that what they are doing is appreciated and wanted. Now, who doesn't feel less stressed by that? <br />
9. Treat your partner as your equal. The golden rule of relationships! When you're around friends and family members, it can quite easy to disrespect your partner this way... often without knowing you did it. Pay special attention around family members who may not like your partner. <br />
10. Communicate. Sit down and have a heart to heart every once in awhile. With the busy schedules around the holidays, it's important to stop and have a daily check-in with each other, if for no other reason than to keep your sanity. Everyone needs an anchor, this season agree to be each other ]]></description> 
					<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2007 17:12:00 EDT</pubDate> 
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                    <title>GET TO KNOW WOMEN</title> 
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                    <description><![CDATA[<br />
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Tip #1<br />
Make her feel like a woman<br />
She chose you because of your masculine qualities. Qualities that make her feel more womanly. In your presence, she feels protected, provided for, and loved. Be masculine, but do it with sensuality and sensitivity. Be passionate, be strong, but be tender, as if she were a delicate flower. Open the car door for her, carry heavy things for her, pull out her chair. Be chivalrous, be gallant, be thoughtful, and win her heart...over and over again. Make her feel beautiful, make her feel desirable, make her feel special and important, and you'll make her feel like a woman as only a man can do. <br />
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Tip #2<br />
Give her your time and attention<br />
Does she complain that she never sees you, never has time to talk with you, or that you don't even know she's alive? Does she ask u to stop watching tv or reading newspaper? If so, it's a plea for your attention. She knows how focused you can be when you're working, but she feels left out. It's part of that security thing. What to do? Set aside time now and then to focus on her. Let her know she's important enough to devote yourself to her completely and she'll be less likely to feel ignored. The rewards will far outweigh the effort. <br />
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Tip #3<br />
The way to get connect with her is Talking<br />
Women talk for the sheer pleasure of talking. It's how they connect to people. Give her your full attention when she does talk to you, it becomes one of those romantic gestures. Got it? And you know how she's always trying to get you to be "more intimate"? If you listen to her more, she'll think you are being more intimate. All you have to do is look at her and pay attention; she'll think she's died and gone to heaven. It's that important to her, and that simple.<br />
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Tip #4<br />
Tell her you care for her <br />
For her to really feel your love, you need to tell her in words. Of course, she wants to hear you say "I love you," but anything you say to let her know you care and appreciate her will earn you major points: "You're wonderful, do you know that?" "I'm so lucky to have you." "Do you know how much I love you?" Big points on that one. Whenever you say these things, look into her eyes and mean it. Remember this, you cannot tell her you love her too often. This definitely wins you points on the romance chart. And, how often have you heard one of your buddies, who's gotten a divorce, say, "I never realized how much she did to make my life comfortable." <br />
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Tip #5<br />
Tell her she's attractive<br />
In today's culture, because of what they are taught as girls, and because of what they read in magazines and see on TV and in films, women get insecure about how they look and whether they're appealing. So, tell her regularly and let her know you mean it that she's beautiful. Compliment her on a new dress, the color she's wearing, or how her hair looks. <br />
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Tip #6<br />
Honor her feelings <br />
Her feelings are as important to her as your work (or maybe sports) is to you. That's why she likes to talk about them. She needs you to acknowledge what's going on for her when she's being emotional. Don't try to tell her that what she's feeling is "wrong" and don't try to fix the problem unless she asks you to. And never tell her "not to feel" her emotions. A sure-fire winner: ask her, "What are you feeling?" Then sit down and listen. She understands that you get kind of uncomfortable when she's being emotional, but if you just let her express herself and listen with your full attention, she'll think you're the most sensitive man on the earth.<br />
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Tip #7<br />
Making up is hard to do<br />
Does your fight with your partner often turned into a bigger event than it should have? If she's like most women, she tends to get going with her emotions and lets everything spill out. She doesn't mean a lot of what she says. Do your best to pay attention. The best way to stop her in her tracks is to admit that you were being stubborn, insensitive, inconsiderate, and hurtful. The more conciliatory you are, the more she'll be stopped in her tracks. If you make the first move to make up and offer no resistance, she can't keep fighting with you. Someone has to take charge so it doesn't escalate, and because she's lost in her emotions, it's going to have to be you. Be willing to look at her complaint and see where you may have been insensitive to her needs. If you both vow to never go to bed mad, you'll be a making love instead of war. <br />
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Tip #8<br />
She likes to be pampered<br />
Your woman naturally does for others. She appreciates the value of nurturing but all too often doesn't take the time to care for herself. You can score big time if once in a while you run a bubble bath for her, take her on a special trip or plan a romantic dinner, give her a gift certificate from her favorite shop or a trip to a day spa. Talk about getting a woman "in the mood." Wahoo! Sure, she appreciates that you change the oil in her car, but it doesn't really tell her you love her, even though that may be what you mean. To pamper her just remember, personal luxuries. <br />
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Tip #9<br />
Give her respect<br />
Throughout history, and in many cultures even today, women have been second-class citizens, looked down on as less able in every category. Only recently have we begun to consider women worthy of respect. To be the open, loving woman you want, she needs you to honor her as a person and appreciate her contributions as a capable person. Don't treat her as a child. Don't judge or criticize her. Don't ignore her or take her for granted. Don't be rude. Treat her like a lady at all times and she'll treat you with the respect that you expect and enjoy. <br />
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Tip #10<br />
Make her feel secure<br />
Your lady has a deep biological need to feel secure, to have a man provide for her and protect her. Financial security is obviously important, but even more than that, she needs to know you're there for her. That's one of the reasons she needs to hear you say "I love you." What really helps is to give her ongoing affection and the reassurance of physical contact. If you do this every day, several times a day, you'll give her the security she needs. Hold her hand, put your arm around her, hug her, touch her in gentle and reassuring ways. The more secure she feels, the happier she'll be. When she's happy, she's open to you. <br />
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					<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2007 17:07:00 EDT</pubDate> 
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                    <title>FLOWERs  MEANINGs</title> 
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                    <description><![CDATA[White rosebud:  <br />
 Heart ignorant of love  <br />
Crocus:   <br />
 Abuse not  <br />
Rhubarb:   <br />
 Advice  <br />
Indian jasmine:   <br />
 Attachment  <br />
Holly :   <br />
 Am I forgotten  <br />
Deep red carnation:   <br />
 Alas! for my poor heart  <br />
Deep red rose:   <br />
 Bashful shame  <br />
Full red rose:   <br />
 Beauty  <br />
Burgundy rose:   <br />
 Unconscious beauty (hmm?)  <br />
Unique rose:   <br />
 Call me not beautiful  <br />
Turnip(!):   <br />
 Charity  <br />
Chrysanthemum:   <br />
 Cheerfulness in old age  <br />
Buttercup:   <br />
 Childishness  <br />
Great yellow daffodil:   <br />
 Chivalry  <br />
Lettuce :   <br />
 Cold heartedness <br />
 <br />
Moss rosebud:   <br />
 Confession of love  <br />
Red poppy:   <br />
 Consolation  <br />
Red tulip:   <br />
 Declaration of love  <br />
Yellow sweetbrier or yellow rose:   <br />
 Decrease of love  <br />
Mistletoe:   <br />
 Difficulties, I surmount  <br />
Yellow carnation:   <br />
 Rue, distain  <br />
Thorn less rose:   <br />
 Early attachment  <br />
Anemone:   <br />
 Expectation  <br />
Scarlet poppy:   <br />
 Extravagance, fantastic  <br />
Blue violet:   <br />
 Faithfulness  <br />
Purple lilac:    First emotions of love  <br />
Forget-me-not:    Hmm....gee?  <br />
Damask rose:    Freshness  <br />
White rose:    I am worthy of you  <br />
Peach blossom:    I am your captive  <br />
lris:    I have a message for you  <br />
White daisy:    Innocence  <br />
Yellow rose:    Jealousy  <br />
Dandelion:    Love's oracle  <br />
Lotus flower:    Estranged love  <br />
Ivy:    Marriage  <br />
Province rose:    My heart is in flames  <br />
yellow iris:    Passion  <br />
Dog rose:    Pleasure and pain  <br />
Christmas rose:    Relieve my anxiety  <br />
Filbert:    Reconciliation  <br />
Spanish jasmine:    Sensuality  <br />
Peony:    Shame  <br />
White poppy:    Sleep  <br />
Yellow chrysanthemum:    Slighted love  <br />
Amarylis:    Splendid beauty  <br />
Honey flower:    Sweet and secret love  <br />
Pansy:    Thoughts  <br />
Zinnia:    Thoughts of absent friends  <br />
Forget-me-not:    True love  <br />
White and red rose together:    Unity  <br />
Parsley:    Useful knowledge  <br />
Pink carnation:    Woman's love  <br />
lady slipper:    Win me  <br />
Marigold:    Vulgar minded  <br />
Rosemary:    Your presence revives me  <br />
Ice plant:    Your looks freeze me  <br />
Red rose:    Love  <br />
Yellow rose:    Friendship  <br />
White rose:    Fear  <br />
Pink rose:    Indecision  <br />
Green rose:    I am from Mars  <br />
Lily:    I am dead  <br />
Dandelion:    I am very cheap  <br />
Dandelion going to seed:    I am very cheap   <br />
Chrysanthemum:    I have periodontal disease  <br />
Carnation:    I ripped this off of some guy's tuxedo  <br />
Posey:    I want love   <br />
Daisy:    I want love   <br />
Sunflower:    I am hungry  <br />
Crabgrass:   <br />
 I just escaped from a mental institution  <br />
Scallion:   <br />
 I am clueless  <br />
 <br />
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                    <title>When I look into your eyes</title> 
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                    <description><![CDATA[When I look into your eyes<br />
I can see a love restrained<br />
But darlin' when I hold you<br />
Don't you know I feel the same <br />
'Cause nothin' lasts forever<br />
And we both know hearts can change<br />
And it's hard to hold a candle<br />
In the cold November rain<br />
We've been through this such a long long time<br />
Just tryin' to kill the pain<br />
But lovers always come and lovers always go<br />
And no one's really sure who's lettin' go today<br />
Walking away<br />
And when you take the time to lay it on the line<br />
I could rest my head<br />
Just knowin' that you were mine<br />
All mine<br />
So if you want to love me<br />
then darlin' don't refrain<br />
Or I'll just end up walkin'<br />
In the cold November rain<br />
Do you need some time...on your own<br />
Do you need some time...all alone<br />
Everybody needs some time...on their own<br />
Don't you know you need some time...all alone<br />
I know it's hard to keep an open heart<br />
When even friends seem out to harm you<br />
But if you could heal a broken heart<br />
Wouldn't time be out to charm you<br />
Sometimes I need some time...on my own<br />
Sometimes I need some time...all alone<br />
Everybody needs some time...on their own<br />
Don't you know you need some time...all alone<br />
And when your fears subside<br />
And shadows still remain<br />
I know that you can love me<br />
When there's no one left to blame<br />
So never mind the darkness<br />
We still can find a way<br />
'Cause nothin' lasts forever<br />
Even cold November rain<br />
Don't ya think that you need somebody<br />
Don't ya think that you need someone<br />
Everybody needs somebody<br />
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					<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2007 16:08:00 EDT</pubDate> 
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                    <title>END OF TIME</title> 
                    <link>http://adnanmian.tigblog.org/post/176659</link> 
                    <description><![CDATA[<br />
We are only travelers here<br />
For a short time<br />
And then we will be gone<br />
Why do we collect wealth<br />
And material things when<br />
They would be of no use<br />
To us at our ultimate destination<br />
<br />
The rich are getting richer<br />
No prosperity for the rich ones<br />
The poor are getting poorer<br />
No patience in the poor ones<br />
<br />
Men don’t care how they get things<br />
By hook or by crook<br />
Lawful or unlawful<br />
Ignorance, adultery, sodomy, gambling<br />
Drinking of wine are<br />
Alarmingly on the rise<br />
There’s no respect for the scholars except<br />
For their good clothing<br />
<br />
The government is entrusted<br />
To the undeserving people<br />
There is no shyness in women<br />
<br />
Oh! The Muslim Ummah<br />
At the end of time<br />
Lo! The hour is surly coming<br />
There is no doubt thereof<br />
Yet most of mankind believes not<br />
Allah Guideth unto Himself who He wills.<br />
<br />
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					<pubDate>Wed, 04 Apr 2007 15:50:00 EDT</pubDate> 
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                    <title>MY BELOVED MOTHER</title> 
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                    <description><![CDATA[Oh! My beloved Mother<br />
Nine months of joy, pain, and strive<br />
Your belly served as a receptacle for me<br />
<br />
Oh! My beloved Mother<br />
When as an infant mewling and puking in your arms<br />
Your breast served as a skin bag (to drink out of) for me<br />
<br />
Oh! My beloved Mother<br />
When in pains and fear<br />
Your bosom served as refuge for me<br />
<br />
Oh! My beloved Mother<br />
When stumbling about learning to walk<br />
Your songs served as encouragement to me<br />
<br />
Oh! My beloved Mother<br />
When sickness made me cry<br />
Your smile served as straight to me<br />
<br />
Oh! My beloved Mother<br />
When I remember your adoring gaze I know<br />
You were so kind and affectionate to me<br />
<br />
Oh! My beloved Mother<br />
When you left me a legacy of a rightful Deen, I always pray<br />
May Allah the Merciful grant you Aljannat-firdaus<br />
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					<pubDate>Wed, 04 Apr 2007 08:05:00 EDT</pubDate> 
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                    <title>MY SPECIAL FRIEND</title> 
                    <link>http://adnanmian.tigblog.org/post/175059</link> 
                    <description><![CDATA[She's my treasure, <br />
<br />
with whom I can share, <br />
<br />
all the thoughts and feelings, <br />
<br />
I wouldn't be able to bear.<br />
<br />
My hope and my joy, <br />
<br />
for going through this life.<br />
<br />
Past every single problem, <br />
<br />
and every single strife.<br />
<br />
I love her most dear, <br />
<br />
with all of my heart.<br />
<br />
I will always remember, <br />
<br />
we shall never be apart.<br />
<br />
I'll remember her words, <br />
<br />
those wise words she spoke.<br />
<br />
I will always remember, <br />
<br />
her every single joke.<br />
<br />
Her courage and strength, <br />
<br />
when the going got rough.<br />
<br />
We stuck through it together, <br />
<br />
nothing could ever be too tough.<br />
<br />
Fear was destroyed, <br />
<br />
by our will to achieve.<br />
<br />
We will conquer our faults, <br />
<br />
we will always believe.<br />
<br />
We both believe in each other, <br />
<br />
we will both stand together.<br />
<br />
This is how it will be, <br />
<br />
forever and ever! ]]></description> 
					<pubDate>Sun, 01 Apr 2007 16:33:00 EDT</pubDate> 
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                    <title>Practicing Sexual Intercourse During Menstruation</title> 
                    <link>http://adnanmian.tigblog.org/post/166841</link> 
                    <description><![CDATA[They will question thee concerning<br />
<br />
the monthly course. Say "It is hurt;<br />
<br />
so go apart from women during<br />
<br />
the monthly course, and do not approach them<br />
<br />
till they are clean. When they have cleansed<br />
<br />
themselves, then come into them as God<br />
<br />
has commended you". Truly, God loves<br />
<br />
those who repent, and he loves those<br />
<br />
who cleanse themselves.<br />
<br />
Chapter 2 verse 222<br />
<br />
 <br />
<br />
Practicing sexual intercourse during menstruation is forbidden because the womb at that period is inflamed and easily exposed to bacteria. Dr. El Bar says that blood is the best environment for microbes to increase and flourish. Besides, the capacity of the womb to resist the invading microbes, that exist on the penis, decreases that constitute a great danger for the womb. The resistance of the vagina becomes also very low, because the acid which it throws out and which kills the microbes decreases during menstruation.<br />
<br />
That is why, goes on Dr. El bar sexual intercourse during menstruation is but letting microbes in, at a time when the womb could not resist.<br />
<br />
It is not only women who are hurt, but men are also hurt. The increase of microbes leads to inflaming men’s urinary tracts. The microbes could also invade the prostate, then to the spermatic cord and the spermatocyst, which could block the sperm duct and hence causes impotency.<br />
<br />
It is not only that but other diseases also attack both women and men so the Holy Qur’an forbids such unhealthy practice and in this it is also ahead of science and scientists.<br />
<br />
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					<pubDate>Fri, 16 Mar 2007 16:25:00 EDT</pubDate> 
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                    <title>I'm alive</title> 
                    <link>http://adnanmian.tigblog.org/post/119367</link> 
                    <description><![CDATA[From underneath the trees, we watch the sky<br />
Confusing stars for satellites<br />
I never dreamed that you'd be mine<br />
But here we are, we're here tonight<br />
<br />
Singing amen I, I'm alive(i'm alive)<br />
Singing amen I, I'm alive<br />
<br />
<br />
If everyone cared and nobody cried,<br />
If everyone loved and nobody lied,<br />
If everyone shared and swallowed their pride,<br />
Then we'd see the day, when nobody died<br />
<br />
And I'm singing<br />
<br />
amen I,amen, I, I'm alive<br />
amen I amen I, amen I, I'm alive<br />
<br />
And in the air the fireflies<br />
Our only light in paradise<br />
We'll show the world they were wrong<br />
And teach them all to sing along<br />
<br />
Singing amen I, I'm alive (I'm alive)<br />
Singing amen I, I'm alive<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
And as we lie beneath the stars,<br />
We realize how small we are,<br />
If they could love like you and me,<br />
Imagine what the world could be<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
We'd see the day, we'd see the day<br />
When nobody died<br />
We'd see the day, we'd see the day<br />
When nobody died<br />
We'd see the day when nobody died<br />
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					<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jan 2007 03:04:00 EST</pubDate> 
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                    <title>Oh, Hard Times Come Again No More</title> 
                    <link>http://adnanmian.tigblog.org/post/42169</link> 
                    <description><![CDATA[let us pause in life's pleasures and count its many tears<br />
while we all sup sorrow with the poor<br />
there's a song that will linger forever in our ears<br />
oh, hard times come again no more<br />
<br />
'tis a song… a sigh of the weary<br />
hard times… hard times come again no more<br />
many days you have lingered around my cabin door<br />
oh… hard times come again no more<br />
<br />
while we seek mirth and beauty<br />
and music light and gay<br />
there are frail ones fainting at the door<br />
though their voices are silent<br />
their pleading looks will say <br />
oh, hard times come again no more<br />
<br />
'tis a song… a sigh of the weary <br />
hard times... hard times come again no more<br />
many days you have lingered around my cabin door<br />
oh, hard times come again no more<br />
<br />
'tis a sigh that is wafted across the troubled wave<br />
'tis a wail that is heard upon the shore<br />
'tis a dirge that is murmured around the lowly grave<br />
oh, hard times come again no more<br />
<br />
'tis a song…a sigh of the weary<br />
hard times… hard times come again no more<br />
many days you have lingered around my cabin door<br />
oh, hard times come again no more<br />
oh, hard times come again no more]]></description> 
					<pubDate>Fri, 18 Aug 2006 06:28:00 EDT</pubDate> 
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                    <title>I Will Always Love You</title> 
                    <link>http://adnanmian.tigblog.org/post/39425</link> 
                    <description><![CDATA[Nothing stays the same. <br />
Sunrise becomes sunset; <br />
Morning turns into night; <br />
An angry storm can turn <br />
Into a gentle breeze; <br />
A tiny seed can become a <br />
Towering tree; <br />
A lowly caterpillar <br />
Transforms into a <br />
Colorful butterfly; <br />
A child grows into a man. <br />
<br />
Life goes on. <br />
Seasons change. <br />
Circumstances change. <br />
People change. <br />
<br />
But I know <br />
That I will always love you <br />
No matter what happens <br />
Or whatever changes <br />
That will take place in our lives.<br />
]]></description> 
					<pubDate>Sat, 10 Jun 2006 06:45:00 EDT</pubDate> 
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                    <title>Poetry</title> 
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                    <description><![CDATA["Karo Maherbani Tum ehl-e-Zameen Per Khuda Meharban Ho Ga Earsh-e-Bani Per"<br />
It is Phrase and it mean that iff you do some thing good on earth God will pay you back in his court where you will not find any 1 to help you]]></description> 
					<pubDate>Mon, 15 Aug 2005 16:49:00 EDT</pubDate> 
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